Frequently Asked Questions
- Is there a crime too big or small?
- Why would I want to communicate with the offender?
- What happens if I choose to communicate with an offender?
- What are the benefits of communicating with an offender?
- What are some examples of what other crime victims have done?
1. Is there a crime too big or small?
No.
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2. Why would I want to communicate with the offender?
You might need to:
- Obtain information
- Confront or express your anger
- Have a verbal answer to a question
- Assess for yourself the progress of the offender
- Address a practical concern or issue
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3. What happens if I choose to communicate with an offender?
A Victim Guide will begin the process by writing a proposed agreement outlining exactly
how this communication will happen. (For example, a Victim Guide can arrange for an
exchange of letters or videos.) There is no fee for this service.
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4. What are the benefits of communicating with an offender?
Communication with the offender may help:
- Answer your questions about the crime
- Reduce your fear
- Reduce your anger
- Share your grief
- Clarify your confusion
- Break the Victim/Offender Trauma Bond
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5. What are some examples of what other crime victims have done?
Some have chosen to:
- Set up a safe social encounter
- Invite their family and friends to participate in a family conference with the offender
- Design a safe setting in which to confront the offender
- Request a facilitated conversation with the offender
- Draft a letter
- Negotiate a contractual encounter
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